DeFiNe FrIeNDsHiP......

Being a friend is quiet easy but being a good friend is hard. There are many ups and downs you have to go, many challenges you have to take and many risk you have to face

Being a good friend is not just by loving your friend and always be together every time. Being a good friend is about caring to each other. To understand each other. To know your friend inside out and support them whenever what is right and what’s best for them. Being a good friend is not just by doing everything together or be at the same place and time. Its about to know what it is in your heart. To know what it is in your friend’s heart

So if it is destined to be apart, no matter what time or what place, no matter how far your friend is, you know that your friend is there with you in your heart. They will love you as much as you love them. Trusting you as much as you trust them. So no matter the place and time we will never apart....

errr... i wrote that some years before... that was my definition of friends back then... x lama lepas tu..gua ader tanyar member gua... she wrote...

friendship means telling your friends the truth even if it hurts. it also about giving them advice even if they do not ask. a good friend will be the first to (or at least) realize that you are happy, and share it with you. when you are sad, they will comfort your feelings, and again, share it with you. Friendship is also about asking your friend for lunch/dinner/supper/breakfast/ tea, although you they have already eaten (you once lived in a hostel, you know what i mean,rite). it is also about keeping in touch;any ways (sms, miscall, email, letters, etc) to tell that you remember. and most importantly, friendship is about forgiving whether the word 'sorry' is heard or not, you always tell them 'its okay' (heard or unheard) and acted like usual, because deep inside, you know that your friend is sorry for what he has done and therefore you should forgive him. lastly, it's about being there for your friends, when they are in need, whether they ask you to, or not. friendship is a special bond between human. until man realize that their life is a part of friendship, instead of vice versa, they will not apprehend that the meaning o friendship is attached to themselves. i hope my friend now know that he is actually a good friend and has acted a very beautiful friendship.

so....define friendship!!!gua pun x tau nak cakap camner lagi..got any suggestions???..